When you meet someone for the first time, unconsciously, in 20 seconds the person forms an opinion about you, decides if you are a good person or not. I have an extra step. Before I can prove that I am a good person, I must first prove that I am not a bad person. 20 seconds is not a lot of time when... I have nothing to do with all that! Now that it took you 20 seconds to read that, we can start talking about other things.